Legal Coaching
A self-represented, remote way to move forward with clarity - plan the steps, prepare documents, and get ready for negotiation or court.
Is Coaching or Full Representation Right for You?
- Choose Coaching if you want expert guidance but plan to handle filings and appearances yourself.
- Choose Full Representation if you need a lawyer of record to file, negotiate, and appear for you.
What We Cover
Strategy Sessions
Clarify goals, map your case timeline, and prioritize the next 1-3 actions.
Document Guidance
Organize and review disclosures, declarations, exhibits, and financials.
Negotiation Prep
Outline proposals, key walk-away points, and mediation talking notes.
Court Readiness
Hearing checklists, timelines, and local practice pointers for San Bernardino County.
Why Choose Our Coaching Program
You will work directly with a Certified Family Law Specialist who also has a background in psychology. That unique blend means your plan is legally sound and human-centered - focused on lowering conflict and making steady, practical progress.
- Certified expertise: California Certified Family Law Specialist (CFLS) guidance, tailored to your facts and goals.
- Psychology-informed: Communication strategies and decision frameworks that reduce friction and keep you objective.
- Local insight: San Bernardino County procedures, timing, and expectations woven into your plan.
- Settlement-first: We emphasize leverage, preparation, and clear proposals that move cases forward.
Coaching for High-Conflict & Narcissistic Dynamics
Stay Centered & Strategic
- Spot common manipulation patterns and respond without escalating.
- Use documentation checklists to safeguard credibility.
- Apply communication templates (BIFF/brief, informative, friendly, firm) to keep exchanges productive.
Protect the Process
- Boundary setting that aligns with court expectations.
- Parallel-parenting tools when co-parenting is not feasible.
- Issue-by-issue prioritization to reduce noise and focus on outcomes.
Coaching is not therapy. We focus on legal process, planning, and practical steps that support your case and your wellbeing.
What You Can Accomplish With Online Legal Coaching
Session 1
- Clarify goals, urgent issues, and risks.
- Assemble documents; outline disclosures and declarations.
- Create a step-by-step plan with clear next actions.
Session 2
- Draft negotiation points and proposed solutions.
- Prepare hearing/mediation talking notes and exhibits list.
- Refine communication strategy and boundaries.
Session 3
- Rehearse presentations; tighten timelines and logistics.
- Finalize a practical file system for ongoing case work.
- Set a cadence for future check-ins (as needed).
Between Sessions
- Written action steps and checklists after each session.
- Template language for emails, declarations, and proposals.
- Resource links for forms and local rules.
What Coaching Is and Isn't
Coaching Is
- Direct, confidential sessions with a CFLS attorney-coach.
- Planning, document guidance, negotiation and court prep.
- Short, focused sprints that reduce conflict and confusion.
Coaching Isn't
- Formal representation - we do not appear in court as your attorney of record or file documents for you.
- Therapy - we offer legal process strategy, not mental-health treatment.
- A retainer - sessions are scheduled as needed; you stay in control of scope and cost.
Pricing & Logistics
Transparent pay-as-you-go sessions (50 minutes). No retainer for coaching. Packages and extended planning blocks available on request. We'll confirm scope and next steps before you book.
How Sessions Work
50-minute video sessions with action steps. You receive checklists and links after each call.
- Remote by video or phone
- Flexible scheduling
- Pay-as-you-go; no retainer for coaching
Divorce Coaching
Navigate the dissolution process from petition to judgment. We help you understand the forms, the timelines, and the strategic decisions needed to reach a fair settlement without unnecessary litigation.
Custody Coaching
Build a parenting plan that prioritizes your children. We guide you through creating visitation schedules, holiday plans, and communication rules that reduce conflict and stand up in court.
Child Support Coaching
Understand the guideline formula. We help you gather the right financial documents, run support calculations, and prepare to discuss expenses, add-ons, and arrears with confidence.
Spousal Support Coaching
Clarify rights and obligations regarding alimony. Whether seeking or paying, we help you understand the factors courts consider (length of marriage, earnings, standard of living) so you can negotiate effectively.
Trial Coaching
Prepare for your day in court. From organizing exhibits and witness lists to practicing your opening statement and testimony, we ensure you are ready to present a clear, organized case to the judge.
Clerks Office Coaching
Avoid rejection and delays. We review your completed forms for technical accuracy, helping you navigate local filing rules and procedures correctly the first time.
Document Preparation Coaching
Don't face blank forms alone. We walk you through specific judicial council forms, explaining what each section means and how to articulate your position clearly in your declarations.
Coaching FAQs
What is Legal Coaching?
Private strategy and planning with an attorney coach. You remain self-represented; we guide the steps.
Is coaching a fit for my case?
Coaching fits uncontested or limited-scope matters, and also helps organize contested cases before you retain counsel.
How is it billed?
Flat per-session or hourly - no retainer for coaching. We'll outline the scope before you book.